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		By: Snowy		</title>
		<link>https://vintagerevivals.com/craigslist-etiquette-is-for-suckers/#comment-1590196</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Snowy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jun 2018 15:31:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://vintagerevivals.com/craigslist-etiquette-is-for-suckers/#comment-112696&quot;&gt;jenn&lt;/a&gt;.

Oh please...  I believe in courtesy and respect, during these transactions, but in regard to promises... this is the real world. Craigslist sales and promises are mutually exclusive terms.  It&#039;s up to each individual to assess the situation and do as they see fit.  There is nothing immoral about changing your mind, trusting your intuition, or simply taking the faster buyer or higher offer for your item.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://vintagerevivals.com/craigslist-etiquette-is-for-suckers/#comment-112696">jenn</a>.</p>
<p>Oh please&#8230;  I believe in courtesy and respect, during these transactions, but in regard to promises&#8230; this is the real world. Craigslist sales and promises are mutually exclusive terms.  It&#8217;s up to each individual to assess the situation and do as they see fit.  There is nothing immoral about changing your mind, trusting your intuition, or simply taking the faster buyer or higher offer for your item.</p>
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		By: J		</title>
		<link>https://vintagerevivals.com/craigslist-etiquette-is-for-suckers/#comment-1587669</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[J]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Mar 2018 00:50:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I had to search the internet if I was really a bad person lol 
I know I’m years behind this post but I had a chair for sale. Had another lady set up a time with me for the next day for pick up. It was still early in the day. So another lady shows up to buy other chairs and sees this chair. So she makes me an offer and actually bought 4 chairs instead of only 2. Now I had to tell lady no 1 that the chair is gone... SHE goes completely nuts and calls me low class and more. LADY! ITS A CHAIR! If you have to wait a day to come get it - you snooze you lose!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had to search the internet if I was really a bad person lol<br />
I know I’m years behind this post but I had a chair for sale. Had another lady set up a time with me for the next day for pick up. It was still early in the day. So another lady shows up to buy other chairs and sees this chair. So she makes me an offer and actually bought 4 chairs instead of only 2. Now I had to tell lady no 1 that the chair is gone&#8230; SHE goes completely nuts and calls me low class and more. LADY! ITS A CHAIR! If you have to wait a day to come get it &#8211; you snooze you lose!</p>
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		By: Lora		</title>
		<link>https://vintagerevivals.com/craigslist-etiquette-is-for-suckers/#comment-1378523</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lora]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2015 03:19:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Lol, No way, sweetie! You did the seller a FAVOR because so many times things are held for people and the jerk never shows up! First come first serve on CL.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lol, No way, sweetie! You did the seller a FAVOR because so many times things are held for people and the jerk never shows up! First come first serve on CL.</p>
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		By: Ashley wallace		</title>
		<link>https://vintagerevivals.com/craigslist-etiquette-is-for-suckers/#comment-526530</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ashley wallace]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2014 16:53:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I had a similar situation happen to me today, except I was the buyer! I was selling an antique buffet listed as 220 OBO. Someone offered me 180, so I waited a few days then accepted her offer and arranged a meeting. Soon after I arranged the meeting, someone offered me 200, so I emailed the first lady and said I got a higher offer and asked if she wanted it for 200 AND she FREAKED OUT on me!!! Was I really wrong?? I listed it as best offer/? And I even asked her if she wanted it instead of just selling it to the second person. 
Give me your honest opinion if you think Im right or wrong :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had a similar situation happen to me today, except I was the buyer! I was selling an antique buffet listed as 220 OBO. Someone offered me 180, so I waited a few days then accepted her offer and arranged a meeting. Soon after I arranged the meeting, someone offered me 200, so I emailed the first lady and said I got a higher offer and asked if she wanted it for 200 AND she FREAKED OUT on me!!! Was I really wrong?? I listed it as best offer/? And I even asked her if she wanted it instead of just selling it to the second person.<br />
Give me your honest opinion if you think Im right or wrong 🙂</p>
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		By: Jules		</title>
		<link>https://vintagerevivals.com/craigslist-etiquette-is-for-suckers/#comment-126860</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jules]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 May 2013 13:17:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Ha!! Had to come read the comments after today&#039;s post. &quot;Bad karma&quot; is about the dumbest thing I&#039;ve ever heard second to all the &quot;scolding&quot; comments. I consider myself a very moral person in addition to an extreme rule follower, and I think what you did was just fine. The seller was the one with the discretion to tell you &quot;no&quot; which clearly she didn&#039;t. Yes, I would have been upset as the buyer losing out on the chairs, but as a seller, I wouldn&#039;t have sold them to you without attempting to contact the original buyer first. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush, so they say. Seller to blame.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Also? Didn&#039;t you just sell these chairs at the Hoard Sale?? Lol!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ha!! Had to come read the comments after today&#8217;s post. &#8220;Bad karma&#8221; is about the dumbest thing I&#8217;ve ever heard second to all the &#8220;scolding&#8221; comments. I consider myself a very moral person in addition to an extreme rule follower, and I think what you did was just fine. The seller was the one with the discretion to tell you &#8220;no&#8221; which clearly she didn&#8217;t. Yes, I would have been upset as the buyer losing out on the chairs, but as a seller, I wouldn&#8217;t have sold them to you without attempting to contact the original buyer first. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush, so they say. Seller to blame.</p>
<p>Also? Didn&#8217;t you just sell these chairs at the Hoard Sale?? Lol!</p>
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		By: Kris		</title>
		<link>https://vintagerevivals.com/craigslist-etiquette-is-for-suckers/#comment-121277</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kris]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 22:46:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Are you kidding?!  I do this ALL.THE.TIME.  Especially in Alaska where the pickings are really, really, exceptionally slim.  Sellers like to get stuff out of their house and feel like they didn&#039;t lose money.  Craigslist buyers should understand the true meaning of &#039;you snooze you lose&#039;.  Seriously.  If I am selling something and the person can come RIGHT.NOW. then I&#039;m selling it to them...even if someone said they could come tomorrow.  Too bad.  No holdsies people.  You wanted them, you made it happen.  Done.  The other sellers can cry over their soup for not being willing to go and get them when they called.  SO there.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you kidding?!  I do this ALL.THE.TIME.  Especially in Alaska where the pickings are really, really, exceptionally slim.  Sellers like to get stuff out of their house and feel like they didn&#8217;t lose money.  Craigslist buyers should understand the true meaning of &#8216;you snooze you lose&#8217;.  Seriously.  If I am selling something and the person can come RIGHT.NOW. then I&#8217;m selling it to them&#8230;even if someone said they could come tomorrow.  Too bad.  No holdsies people.  You wanted them, you made it happen.  Done.  The other sellers can cry over their soup for not being willing to go and get them when they called.  SO there.</p>
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		By: Mackenzie		</title>
		<link>https://vintagerevivals.com/craigslist-etiquette-is-for-suckers/#comment-119229</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Mackenzie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Apr 2012 02:10:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Haha. This is hilarious. If the seller let the other buyer know, then it&#039;s not terrible. If they didn&#039;t it&#039;s on them. You gotta do what you gotta do and CL&#039;s is not a place of &quot;manners.&quot; I don&#039;t care what &quot;karma&quot; that brings. Whether I&#039;m a fair buyer or not, I&#039;ll still get screwed over.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Haha. This is hilarious. If the seller let the other buyer know, then it&#8217;s not terrible. If they didn&#8217;t it&#8217;s on them. You gotta do what you gotta do and CL&#8217;s is not a place of &#8220;manners.&#8221; I don&#8217;t care what &#8220;karma&#8221; that brings. Whether I&#8217;m a fair buyer or not, I&#8217;ll still get screwed over.</p>
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		By: Carrie		</title>
		<link>https://vintagerevivals.com/craigslist-etiquette-is-for-suckers/#comment-119227</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Carrie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Apr 2012 21:21:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[What an awesome post! And no, I don&#039;t think you should feel guilty at all. If you snooze you lose. If you want something on CL you should offer to go get it right away for the asking price or offer more money if you are going to ask the seller to hold it for a day or two. Now what would be rude, is the seller not telling the other buyer she had sold it and just letting her show up.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What an awesome post! And no, I don&#8217;t think you should feel guilty at all. If you snooze you lose. If you want something on CL you should offer to go get it right away for the asking price or offer more money if you are going to ask the seller to hold it for a day or two. Now what would be rude, is the seller not telling the other buyer she had sold it and just letting her show up.</p>
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		By: :-)		</title>
		<link>https://vintagerevivals.com/craigslist-etiquette-is-for-suckers/#comment-119207</link>

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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Apr 2012 18:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Wow people are cray-cray!! You were totally in the right. Money talks and you really wanted those chairs lol. My husband and I had been on the hut for a rectangle small 2 person pub table for awhile and they were over 100 new I found on bookoo for 10bucks. I had to have it so I offered 20 and I could pick up that day. They thanked me but indicated they were going down the list to give other people and opportunity to respond. I ended up with it anyhow ;)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow people are cray-cray!! You were totally in the right. Money talks and you really wanted those chairs lol. My husband and I had been on the hut for a rectangle small 2 person pub table for awhile and they were over 100 new I found on bookoo for 10bucks. I had to have it so I offered 20 and I could pick up that day. They thanked me but indicated they were going down the list to give other people and opportunity to respond. I ended up with it anyhow 😉</p>
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		By: Anonymous		</title>
		<link>https://vintagerevivals.com/craigslist-etiquette-is-for-suckers/#comment-117803</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Anonymous]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jan 2012 18:17:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Personally, I think the onus is on the seller to be professional, fair, what-have-you, etc. They handle a deal poorly or unprofessionally, it&#039;s their reputation which is directly affected. This is one reason why brand names and furniture stores -- which rely on a returning customer base and gain status in the community as a reliable vendor -- need to keep their products and service in good standing by being professional. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Craigslist sellers aren&#039;t really held to that standard. For the most part, they&#039;re just one-off deals with the only real cost to sellers being that they have the item, will or won&#039;t make a profit off of it, and they may have to wait a long time to do so if the price is not right. So these sellers have just the issues of possession, potential for profit, and time/convenience. These instances, it&#039;s the seller who makes the rules and can afford to be flaky or rude in favor of the logical business decision. All they need is to succeed once in a deal and get their money, not make friends. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In this case, the specific seller did the logical thing by taking the offer with more money. Whether or not they were fair or professional, is another matter and I think that reflects directly on that particular sellers values and attitudes. I&#039;d say most CL buyers should be aware that they are not owed anything beyond common courtesy such as being informed that an item has been sold or that there is another offer on the table and can they match that? After all, between sellers and buyers, who sets the rules and has the better bargaining power (i.e. the item) in hand? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In as far as I&#039;ve read, CL has rules merely about postings, harassment, malicious adverts, &quot;phishing&quot;, etc. Nothing about how people should run their personal deals and business decisions.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Personally, I think the onus is on the seller to be professional, fair, what-have-you, etc. They handle a deal poorly or unprofessionally, it&#8217;s their reputation which is directly affected. This is one reason why brand names and furniture stores &#8212; which rely on a returning customer base and gain status in the community as a reliable vendor &#8212; need to keep their products and service in good standing by being professional. </p>
<p>Craigslist sellers aren&#8217;t really held to that standard. For the most part, they&#8217;re just one-off deals with the only real cost to sellers being that they have the item, will or won&#8217;t make a profit off of it, and they may have to wait a long time to do so if the price is not right. So these sellers have just the issues of possession, potential for profit, and time/convenience. These instances, it&#8217;s the seller who makes the rules and can afford to be flaky or rude in favor of the logical business decision. All they need is to succeed once in a deal and get their money, not make friends. </p>
<p>In this case, the specific seller did the logical thing by taking the offer with more money. Whether or not they were fair or professional, is another matter and I think that reflects directly on that particular sellers values and attitudes. I&#8217;d say most CL buyers should be aware that they are not owed anything beyond common courtesy such as being informed that an item has been sold or that there is another offer on the table and can they match that? After all, between sellers and buyers, who sets the rules and has the better bargaining power (i.e. the item) in hand? </p>
<p>In as far as I&#8217;ve read, CL has rules merely about postings, harassment, malicious adverts, &#8220;phishing&#8221;, etc. Nothing about how people should run their personal deals and business decisions.</p>
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